Athletes are part of life. Most of us in the field of sports or profession, regardless of our discipline, are often referred to as athletes. very fair. However, while athletes can be good people and contribute to social well-being, for some time discretion and common sense have decided to withdraw from potential violence. Instinct works with the environment. But let's be clear about it - simply becoming a great athlete, a weightlifter, a polished football player, a hockey player or any of the same configurations - does not guarantee a person's safety in self-defense situations. Retreat is a viable military tactic, knowing when to retreat and establishing a distance between you and potentially destructive or fatal conditions is critical to staying healthy and even alive. A person may be right in the debate, but he may also be correct. This is the crux of the problem.
True Story - June 2011: A Southern California power and training instructor, his brother and friends went out one night. When they visited an overnight restaurant, they started a confrontation with a woman who lined up. The words were exchanged. In response to her negative attitude, one of the men apparently spit on the woman's face. The argument escalated and the restaurant owner asked them to leave. She called her boyfriend and when he arrived with his entourage, there was a battle in the parking lot. The result was that the strength and training coach were stabbed to death. One of his friends also died of a knife wound caused by the girl's boyfriend. He had a history of armed attacks using deadly weapons. The alleged assassination/murderer was arrested and is currently awaiting trial.
Sad... but too common. How many young people die because of lack of wisdom, and the self-motivated mixed desires that are too anxious? What kind of self-defense principles can be used to spread this situation and prevent people in this situation from dying?
1: Balanced and calm manners
Life will always present annoying us or doing events and/or people that may upset us. However, this does not mean that we should allow them or their actions to make us lose balance and disturb our sense of calm. In fact, no one can bother us. We allow them or their actions to make us feel uneasy. It's one thing to line up, but is it worth upgrading to arguments or worse?
2: Modest attitude
Humility is the strongest form of power; arrogance is the weakest form. Humility is the perfect shield against the mad arrogance that permeates the society. Lack of humility and quick triggering on someone's face is not modest and all inflammatory.
3: Realize the situation
Reading is vital to happiness. A hero may never be killed in a movie, but real life is not a movie. People's emotions are like fire, and young people's emotions are like forest fires. Sadly, most young people think they are invincible. This idea is the illusion of hallucinations. Assessing the situation and the likelihood that it creates problems and dangers is critical to our well-being. Living in a naive state is dangerous. be careful. Realize.
4: Create distance
When the situation begins to erupt, one of the safest and most sensible things is to leave. Create the distance between you and the situation. If the young man leaves the restaurant when the girl calls her boyfriend, or when the owner asks them to leave, they are still alive. When the fire begins, there are no clever or heroes left in the forest, and the fire can spread very quickly, especially when there is enough emotion to ignite the fuel.
5: Do you want to die on this mountain?
Some battles are best not to fight, or at least postpone until a better chance of participation. It is important to pick and choose our battles. Some battles are not worth fighting, let alone sacrificing our lives. Although the people who line up are out of date, they are an activity that requires a wise assessment. In this case, no such assessment was made, and the result was the tragic death of two young men and all the pain, pain and turmoil that followed.
This is a murder Jockdom's death? Are the conditions of self and testosterone wisdom and humility? Only participants can answer this question. In fact, the two young people could not answer because they were dead, no matter how accomplished or kind they were.
Summary
We live in an ever-changing environment that requires more calm than ever to assess dangerous situations. The tension is very serious. People are very nervous. Respect for law and order, even life, seems to be weakening. Life is more fragile than some people choose to believe. It is dangerous at all times. People never know when a volcanic eruption will erupt. Smart point. Be smart. Calm. maintain balance. Be modest. Assess the situation of potential damage. If you have to create distance to stay safe, never forget to ask yourself, "Do you want to die on this mountain?"
Orignal From: Jockdom's death - five ways to avoid tragedy
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